Why do people give up? We usually ask ourselves why when we're done giving up. Shouldn't we question, why should we hold on? It's not simple, I know. Once we know what our worth is, asking ourselves "why?" won't be necessary.
1. We care too much and others don't. - It should always be fair, they say. Give and show the love you're receiving. Mirror what your partner does, yes. But not at all times, that's when communication takes place, compromising is the key.
2. Effort isn't appreciated. Don't get me wrong, we're not saying that we count what we give and you don't. However, simple things also need to be noticed. A little gesture, thanks or even a high- five for a job well done work, as always.
3. They know what they deserve. - And you should know yours too. You're not getting any younger. Fix yourself. What do you want in life? If you want to make it work, show that it is you who he/she deserves.
4. Standards were set. - Each of us has standards. We shouldn't lower ours to let people in. Give them a chance to prove what they have and can give. Challenge them. Know their limits and from that you'll learn what they're capable of.
5. Tired. - Tired of bullsh*t, not you. If you're lucky, I'm right. Yes. People have limits. They might say it a hundred times but still keep going. But once they act on it, you'll see how exhausted they are and they'd just disappear. And you'll be the one questioning "why?"
6. A waste, in all aspects. - This happens when you're giving too much that affects what and who you are as a person. Time and money are precious. Really. You struck gold receiving them and if you won't notice, it won't shine.
7. You just svck. Simple as that. - You're just a plain shit. You cheat. You lie. You're a crap in such ways and you don't deserve to be loved. Oh too much hate. Sorry not sorry
8. You're not good enough. - Some people make you think twice. You'll get affected, if you're weak. But before saying "he's not good enough for me", ask yourself first, "am I good enough for anyone?". Think some more
9. You're pushed. - You didn't want to but he keeps giving you reasons to give up. Actions speak louder than words. Maybe that isn't it but maybe it is. So better put everything on the table and talk
10. He gave up. - He gave up so you gave up. Just like that.
I'm talking about Cupid. š
There's no easy way of giving in and out of the relationsh*t. As I always say, find out if the battle is worth fighting for. If yes, get a spear and shot the person in the heart, like what Cupid does with his arrow. If not, cry and cry some more. You'll soon get the hang of it.
-akap
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