The day I stalk a friend

They have been together for a looooong time. They were so inlove. They traveled together. Spent Christmas and new year's eve together. They watched their favorite movies together, had dinners, took a lot of photos and posted them on Instagram. They were so close to each other's clan. I was so happy to see a friend, full of happiness. I envy them, yes, because they had each other. They had forever.

BUT. Something happened..

The guy needed to go abroad, for work maybe. The girl needed to stay. They had that, "Long distance relationship" setup. They were still so in love. They video call each other, sent sweet messages and stuff. They were strong, they said.

But after a few months..

The girl started posting "move on and painful" quotes with "People change" caption on Instagram. I got curious. I was like, what was that? Was there a war or something? Then, I checked.

My friend was very upset, sad and heart-broken. She started to drink all night with different guys. I know she was hurt but she tried to be strong, to look strong.

She tried to fight for her love but the guy seemed not to. The guy got tired, maybe. The guy didn't like to wait, maybe. The guy couldn't handle the setup, maybe. There were a lot of maybes. But for me, one thing's for sure. The guy fell in and out of love. He fell in love with another woman and fell out of love with my friend. I was and am sure. Why? Because how could you look at the one you love crying, if you didn't have another? How could you say you're tired to fix things, if you didn't have another? How could you just give the relationship up, if you didn't have another? How could you.. How could you do that to her, to my friend, to your "love".

I'd like to blame it on the situation, the LDR setup, the guy, the other woman, my friend. I don't know, or maybe, none of them has a fault. It was destined. They were destined to meet and find their true love from their separation. It svcks. But in the end you'll realize that when you let go of the wrong ones (people who don't value you as much as you value them), you'll find the right one. Just look at the brighter side. Things happen for a reason and for whatever reason that is, painful or not, you have to accept it. That's the only thing that you can do to live a good life, a better one.

The end.

To cut the long story short. The guy got a new girl, YES, I so knew it!!! My friend keeps posting photos with different guys. I think, she's okay. I mean, she's getting there. :)

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